I will try answering this profound question "WHY DO WE HAVE TO SHOUT AT EACH OTHER"???
A professor of theology was teaching about Anger and he asked his students the questions:
"Why do we shout in anger?
"Why do people shout at each other when they are upset"?
The students thought for a while.
One of them said:
Because we lose our calm.
"But why shout when the other person is just next to you"? asked the professor.
"Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice"?
"Why do you shout at a person when you are angry"?
The students gave other answers but none satisfied the professor.
Finally he gave the Psychological, Physiological, and Practical Explanation for shouting:
"When two people are angry at each other, their hearts psychologically distance themselves".
To cover this perception of distance, they think they must shout to be able to hear each other.
The angrier they are, the louder and stronger they will shout to hear each other based on "The Greater Distance".
The professor then asked:
"What happens when two people fall in Love"?
They don't shout at each other but talk softly to one another.
"Because their hearts are Psychologically, Physiological very close".
The distance between them is very small.
The professor continued, "When they love each other even more, what happens"?
"They speak, only in whispers as they even get even closer to each other in Love".
Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all....
So next time you shout to a "Supposed Loved One", know that you are creating distance between your hearts.
ADJUST AND DO THE RIGHT THING.